I always keep saying…neither I am Perfect, nor I intend to
be one’. Yet I m proud to be the person I am. What is it that makes me proud…is
‘Being Myself’. The closest buddy and the greatest critic I have is ‘I…Me…Myself’.
I am strong, fearless, outgoing and self-motivated. I know my dark areas too
but I believe in facing them.
I am self-dependent and I love that. To my good fortune,
there are wonderful people surrounding me and I can fall back on them if needed.
But for how long? In past, I have surely had some amount of emotional
dependency on people and circumstances. Over the years, the roller-coaster ride
of life has taught me to be ‘My Best Buddy’ and today I am a product of my own
experiences.
I have to nurture this best friend of mine …my swimming,
reading, blogging, working keeps pumping me with immense zeal and enthusiasm.
No one else in this world makes me feel confident and positive as much as this
best friend of mine does. Life is never going to be a cakewalk. Challenges are
bound to be there, circumstances might not be favorable to me always, people
will come and go but what matters the most is…Being my own best buddy. This
absolutely does not mean I have deserted myself socially. In fact, I am very
outgoing and I love talking to people. But the only person on whom I am
emotionally dependent on is my best friend. Because if you don’t see your
worth, no one else in this world will see it either.
Respect yourself to walk away from anything that no longer
serves you, grows you or makes you happy.
For me the strongest factor to lead a happy and peaceful
life is my self-esteem. I believe I can do it, I believe I deserve it and I
believe I will get it.
At the end of the journey…there is just one person who is
there with you… ‘Your Best Buddy
’…so unfold it, value it, live it and love it.
This blog felt like I'm reading my mind out of my laptop screen... ! I totally agree with what you have to say.... I always believe that everything starts with 'Me'. Praise yourself if you did something well... Introspect when things are not in your stride... Be it your highest highs or your lowest lows, no one else is to blame but you yourself for what's happening to you ...
ReplyDeleteAnd I only consider it a fortune that I'm surrounded by people who love, care and are always concerned for me ... it only gives me more positivity and to look up to where I want to be..