To Me......From Me

I love being with myself and assessing myself against various parameters. Today I read a post in morning and got inspired for writing this blog. I am 23 so I decided to write a blog about 23 things I want myself to know at 23. So here I go:


1. Its good to be discipline and mature but its equally important to experience that feel of madness at times.

2. Concentrate on your health issues on priority as they will make you sore tomorrow…wear your specs or get a laser done, do your knee exercises regularly. Health is the true wealth is what you have learnt being a defence officer’s child.

3. Stop whatsapping so much – remember your own funda of not getting addicted to any damn thing in this world.

4. Make time for your parents. They are your biggest assets and however old you grow, there is still a scope to learn from them. And for the obvious reason…you mean the world to them.

5. You are partnered with one of the best person in this whole wide world – he loves you, cares for you & values you even beyond what you always wanted so just stop worrying about those tit bit arguments & reactions. Smile over the fact as to how quickly you both bounce back rather than how oftenly the arguments happen.

6. Take time for your hobbies – go swim, play chess, read your books, get back to your culinary skills and keep writing your blogs. A weekend is not that short that you don’t do a single activity out of these.

7. Wear those bright colors. You can definitely carry them well.

8. Stop having a futuristic approach towards every damn thing. Experience the present for it won’t come back

9. Don’t think so much about your job. Making money is surely important but not more than making a life for yourself. And you are doing that in your current job.

10. You are compassionate if not emotional…express that. It won’t make you a weak person.

11. Get that long awaited tattoo done for yourself.

12. Its good to make plans but just be prepared that 2 out of 10 might wander off the path so stay calm.

13. Travel around places…as often as time & money allow.

14. Your friends are still a vital part of your life its just that you are prioritizing your relationship a little more than that and there s absolutely nothing wrong into it…everyone does it. Those who are your true friends would infact want you to do that so stop feeling guilty because rest of them are upset with you.

15. Flowers are beautiful…and you can’t forget that so early.

16. You love driving and very soon you are going to experience that feel of driving all alone. There s always a first time for everything.

17. You need not strive to be a perfectionist in everything for mistakes are said to be the best teachers.

18. Post-marriage Pune, Mumbai or any other city…should that really matter if you have your loved ones around you?

19. People have high expectations from you because they believe in you so take it as a challenge instead of pressure.

20. Because it happened with someone somewhere doesn’t mean it will happen with you. Its good to be prepared but don’t simply be immersed into it.

21. Stop feeling guilty about the mood swings which you get. They are very rare and won’t make you imbalanced. So just go with the flow.

22. Its good to look upto someone as your inspiration but don’t forget that you are unique and your benchmarks must be set as per your capabilities and not someone else’s achievements.

23. Remember what your brother always tells you….be proud about the person you are…strong, confident and beautiful.

PS: Thanks to the author whose blog inspired me this morning to pen-down this.

Because it needs No Reason....

Sitting on my desk...loaded with endless work since morning all I could think of as a stressbuster was writing a blog. But like everytime...I was stuck when it came to the topic.
So I simply decided to start with the post...and it kept me wondering why do I always need a reason to write my blogs?? Sometimes I write because I am happy, sometimes I write because I am hassled and low, sometimes I wanna convey something to someone through my blog, sometimes I wanna make my own self realize something and that gets me to writing a blog....but the crux of it is...I write because I simply loveeeee it. And if thats the case then I need not take such long breaks from blogging only because I don't have a reason to write.
There are so many things in life which indeed need no reason...we simply tend to procrastinate or drift away from it because there is no reason to do it. Dancing alone in the rain, relishing your favourite food item all by yourself, simply writing to your dear ones and letting them know how special they are in your life, sending across a small gift to your parents, partner or friends randomly, experiementing a new thing and messing it up at the end and laughing back at yourself, getting messy playing with your kids in the sand, saying a sorry to someone even if you feel its too late now, getting back to your hobby inspite of knowing that you have already come a long way & might not be able to perform like before, digging into your wardrobe & messing it up simply wanting to find that one dress which has some special memory, going for a late night movie with friends even if you are half asleep, buying some refreshing flowers and feeling their fragrance throughout, simply looking in the mirror and smiling back at yourself.....and so many endless things. Do they really need a reason???? If they can make you smile instantly, why should you wait for a reason to make them happen. just go & dance like crazy in those beautiful showers of nature, just say that "Sorry" or "Thank you" without delaying much now, just shout and let your partner know how much you love him or her, just do those small things which will make your family & friends feel special, just go buy those flowers & make yourself feel good, just look in the mirror and say...I M GONNA SMILE & I DON'T NEED A REASON FOR IT . Life gives us immense opportunities to be happy but we simply miss out on them and keep waiting for reasons every time.
Like I always feel...moments need not be special...we should make them special...!!!! 

Love the Life you Live…Live the Life you Love…!!!

Feels good to be back to blogging after ages...more than a year. How I suddenly though of writing this today…I have a habit of writing a one-liner on top of the page of my office diary before beginning my work everyday. I love to pendown anything which will keep me motivated for the whole day…sometimes I surf the internet for the quotes, sometimes I refer to my books but most of the times I prefer writing something coming out of my own thought process.

The title of my blog is one such thing which I wrote today but my mind couldn’t stop there…when I penetrated deep into my thoughts, I realized that there s so much of hidden essence to this one sentence. And that’s the reason I decided to write a blog.

I am very passionate towards each and every thing I do in my life and I feel so good about it. I definitely am not leading a perfect life but I love the life that m living. Right from my own self, my thoughts, my love life, my family & friends, my work, my hobbies…I love it all.

What makes me content at the end of the day is the peaceful sleep that m able to catch on inspite of being on wheels the whole day. The stress level, the problems, the tensions…everything fades off the moment I start feeling positive about myself. I immediately start looking forward for the next day with equal amount of zeal and enthusiasm.

The reason to write this blog is to strengthen my belief that life will shrink or expand in proportion to your thought process…its nothing but a reflection of how u wanna feel about the life which you are living. I absolutely love the life that am living and am definitely living the life I loveeee..!!!